Colombian Women - who are they ? what they like
Get to know Colombian women
Get to know the Colombian women, if you know them well you will have great success !, Women are like birds, if you move too fast they will fly away. If you have a strategy and if you can be patient the can be yours !, get them to trust you !, be a friend and extend that to a relationship. They love to meet you in a environment that is comfortable. Make them comfortable, that is the key!.
In Colombia parents, cousins, grandparents, uncles, children all live together in either a small house or in a tight nit community, and it is not uncommon for unrelated persons to join a family group as valued and irreplaceable members. And even with the rise of large cities, Colombia still maintain the traditional families, Parents still live with their grown children; specially in poor communities were (and are) still characterized by huge groups of what are now called extended families. Be prepared to meet the women's family, ask her about her family, get to know the names, and how much she loves the family. If she wants a serious relationship with you, she will introduce you to her mother and her close siblings !. If you want to get to know the women, you need to get to know the family. They are joined by umbilical card to there mothers, literally!
Colombian women are open to all races, they do have a affinity to fair skin or a preference for fair skin. Regardless of your skin color , colombia can be a great place to meet women. Colombia is very diverse, you will find women all skin colors, the most diverse country I have seen with respect to skin color. Race is really is not issue.
It is almost given that a Colombian girl will have at least one surgery. It is almost like getting braces, you have to get the silicon and get the big boobs !. Even parents help them, as soon as they reach 18, they love to be carved and get the big but, and big boobs !. Sometimes girls get as many as 10 + surgery's. Taking care of the bodies and getting the silicon is as common as putting on a makeup. Typical surgery trip includes nose, boobs, and butt. They love to show off and look good !, that is Latina !
Women in colombia love dancing, they can dance for hours non stop. It is in the culture, it is in the blood, it is in there DNA. Get to learn some basic moves specially Salsa. You can take Salsa lessons, or just watch Youtube and get the basic rythum and moves. A date with Colombian women should include a trip to night club, it is fun. They love to drink and enjoy the night. Do not go alone, take some friends with you or have her bring some friends to the club. There are no dance floors in Colombia, everyone dances at the table, i.e in groups !. They love friends and family and love to say with the group. Unlike USA or Europe, where we tend to have a dance floor and can dance solo !. Colombia is a family or collective society, everything is done in groups. !
Dating men twice the is common in colombia, if the girl is 20 she does not mind dating guys who are 40. Add about 20 years to girls age. If the age difference is more than 20 years, women are a bit reluctant. It can still happen, but not very common. If you are less than 30 years old, you are considered very very young ! lol.
Colombian women love money and the power that comes with it. Money can make or break your relationship. On one hand women like to go out with Gringos and enjoy the expensive dates and vacations they cannot afford. On the other hand this could break your relationship. Some women will ask you for help , with school fees, expenses etc. If you say no, you are afraid this will break the relationship, if you give what she wants , she may be using you to get money !. My advice: if you want a serious relationship never bring money into the picture, make it clear that you are not interested in a relationship that involves money. If you are just looking for a date, and want to be a sugar daddy that is fine, you can pamper them , so they can be your date and make sure she understands the relationship as well. Many gringos feel , colombian girls are really after you wallet !, what ever it is , it is better to lay everything on the table and explain the relationship you are seeking ! they will understand !
Every one plays games, so do Colombian women !. Know the game other party is playing, go with the flow. Girls in Colombia start the dating routine at a very early age, as early as 13!. They must have seen it all, thier mothers, cousins, best friends going through breakups, marriage, divorce, heart breaks, cheating and you name it. They are mentally very tough, be prepared. Any the soap and love drama that you have seen on TV like Beverly hills 90210 ,bachelor , bachelorhood is just a childs play in Colombia. Nothing will prepare you for the emotional turbulence that you will be subject to in Colombia. Colombian Girls are mentally very tough, and all the dating rituals are a childs play. Dating ex boyfriends friend or dating friends ex boyfriend etc are all very very common.
Be aware of this scenario ! You meet a beautiful, young, exotic Colombian girl. you spend a great week together. You instantly fall in love with the girl, she introduces you to her parents, and her family. She said "I love you" or "Te queiro mucho", and you said the same. You already decided to marry her, you make a few trips to colombia and every thing is great !. One fine day you learn she is a prepago. All this time , she was just playing games with you to get some money, gifts and to enjoy all the good things. This is your worst nightmare.
Flowers are good but not important to Colombian Women, do not try to impress them with Flowers. Medellin in Colombia is a flower city, they are born in flower fields, they see them all the time, they are cheap, they really do not care much for flowers!. Instead give them nice gifts they cannot have, like perfumes , lotions and electronics, they appreciate that more then flowers. Surprise them ! women love surprises and gifts. Bottom line, they love gifts, they love money.
Prepagos or Not a prepago?
This is a very sticky issue, many guys want to know, if the girl they are dating is a prepago (call girl) or not a prepago. You really have to evaluate on your own. The need for money is the motive to become a prepago. If the Colombian women is from a rich family and from a good family, she is least likely to be a prepago. If she comes from a poor family and comes from a broken family she is more likely to be a prepago. I will give you some rules to evaluate, you can use your own judgement. If she is rich, has good education, she has a good job, she comes from a unified family, she lives with her father and mother then she is least likey to get into the sex trade. Evaluate her family, fathers can be very protective and can be good mentors. If she has a father, who she has a very close relationship with and is living with him, she is very very unlikey to work for money. If on the other hand , she come from a poor neighborhood like Bello, Buenos Aires, Manrique, Guajabal, Robelo areas of Medellin, she is more likely to work or have worked in the sex trade.
Colombia does have a Spring break , it is usually in December during Christmas break. Many college kids will go to Santa Marta or San Andreas Island. Everything you can expect from typical American Spring break you can expect that in Colombia.
Many girls do not have computers or internet at home, most of them access Email using Cyper Cafe's at the malls. They will not access email or MSN every day. They will acess Email only ones of twice a week. Some girls who can afford or women who are working can afford internet at home. Internet is about 80,000 peso per month, compared to a minimum monthly wage of 500,000 peso a month. For poor or middle class families this could be very expensive. Cyper Cafe's usually charge about 1000 peso per 10 min. If Colombian girls are very cryptic in there Email, this is why. They have to pay to write Emails. If you are calling your mother on Mothers day and the phone lines are $100 USD a min, what will you say !, I love you mom ! and you will hand up. Same with Colombian Girls , the just give you there phone or Email so you can call them. It is normal, do not think they are not writing you much.
Walking in any Colombian mall can be like a kid in Alice the wonderland, boy ! they show the skin!. Specially the breasts! and it is very normal for the Colombian women !, they llike to show the assets ! they feel they have beautiful bodies and why hide , my very first time in colombia I was shocked to see soo many young and beautiful girls displaying breasts with low cut outfits, it was both shocking and it was fun !. I asked about this directly , and the anwer is; we are Latin women , and we like to look beautiful and display our beauty , why hide it !